I (accidentally) died at my favorite bar
Whispers — I just love a catchy title, right? Let me set the scene. It’s Sunday Funday and my girlies are already deep into it: unlimited mimosas, a meat and…
How the Patriarchy Found Me on a Random Monday
I just wanted a little Monday Night Football, some hot tea with cough drops, and a splash of Jack Honey — but somehow, I ended up in a showdown with…
30 Pounds Down – This Isn’t About Being Skinny
If you landed here, that means you read READ, you’re nosy, or you’re looking for community — all of which is welcome here.🤭 Buckle up, because we’re in for a…
The Grief Hangover
Have you heard of a Grief hangover? I bet you haven't but those who havewalked the path of Grief, know it all too well. It is the after effect of…
The birth of my book, Letters to Grief
After the unexpected transition of my mother, I wrote every month around the date of her passing and published it on Facebook. Remember when Facebook had notes? People read these…
Taking a trip down memory lane, the golden thread of belonging.
Who remembers SNIT: Spicy Nikenya in The City? That blog ran for about two years. I even lost friends over that blog. I know, right! First it was called Single…
Welcome to all things Magical, Mindful and Melanated!
First and foremost, this is a long time coming, right? Shout out to my first blog, SNIT Chronicles: Spicy Nikenya in The City, which was first called Single Nikenya in…